Fat People Aren't Ugly

I have a friend who is overweight. The thing is, I've been friends with her for so long that sometimes I kinda forget that she's overweight. I talk about wanting to be skinny (even though I'm half her weight) just like a normal girl, without being sensitive towards how she might feel. She might think I'm such a bitch for running my mouth off but you know, I think it's better that I don't treat her any differently than I would any other girl. I'd rather not talk about these issues with so much scrutiny and make her feel more like an outcast just because she's overweight. She's no different than us. So it bugs me when there are people who are grossed out by overweight people. I admit that I wouldn't wanna be that size myself. But who are we to say that fat people are ugly? Once, we were all walking down the road and I caught a guy making a really disgusted look when he passed my friend. I felt like slapping him in the face. But lucky for HIM! I was kinda tipsy at the moment and was not in the right state to give him a bitch slap. It still bothers me though.

I just don't see her as fat. I see her as a person who just has difficulties losing weight, just like any other woman. No matter how skinny or fat we women are, we're always gonna have weight problems. We're women!

By the end of the day, we're all fat anyways right. We can be skinny one day and suddenly a certain top will make us look fat and there we are go, eating only crackers and milo for the next three days. Until we feel skinny again and the cycle goes on.

Babe, if you're reading this, just know that you're beautiful inside out and that you're loved no matter what! And to all those people who think you're ugly, they're just insecure bitches who need to feel beautiful by feeding off other people's insecurities. We're not like them. We're awesome!

I'm In Love... Again!

Is it gross to fall in love with a man 6 years your junior? I wouldn't normally date guys younger than me, even a year younger, but if it were Ed Westwick I'd definitely pull a Drew Barrymore on him! I totally get you, Drew!
*sigh* Isn't he just dreamyyyy... I love you, Ed Westwick!!!

Do I Look Ugly?

Like everyone else, I have my insecure days. Days when I feel abso-effing-lutely fugly. Days when I feel fat. Days when none of my clothes look flattering on me. Days when my hair just doesn't seem to fall right. Days when makeup wouldn't even help. Days when I just wanna stay at home and wear t-shirt and sweats because that's the only look that fits my mood; Fugly!

I know most of you girls and maybe guys too, have one time or another felt the same way. No matter how beautiful you are, there are times that you just feel ugly. And I totally understand. I might not have a psychology degree to tell you how to NOT feel ugly. But what I do have is the internet, and I found this great article on how to deal with feeling ugly and how to come to terms with it.

I suggest everyone to take some time to read the articles. I don't know about you but when I feel ugly, I become terribly feisty! I tend to ask, "Do I look ugly?" but of course no one would ever say "Yes!" and it ticks me off even more! Goshh.. women! LOL! So yeah, these articles do help, so do read 'em k!

And remember, you're NOT ugly!

I'm in Love

with Disney Couture's leather wrap bracelets! It's driving me crazy!!

Anyone out there feeling mighty mighty generous??

It's ONLY more or less RM400 each...

Yeah, I figured....

New Look!

Yayyy!!

I changed my layout and I'm loving it. Thanks to Emporium Digital for the free blog template. I actually wanted to get a customized one but for the time being, I'm totally feeling this one I found. And the fact that it's free is even better!

I'm happy!